Everyone makes mistakes.  Its natural, it’s how we learn.

But are you picking up on the mistakes you are making with your man?

A lot of these, are things that just get missed.  They might come from preconceived notions you have, or they might be from experiences you’ve had in your past.

Either way, today we will tell you about 3 of the most common sex mistakes women make.

1. Foreplay is a two-way street – Men and women are seemingly very different when it comes to arousal.  Men, it seems, can be ready to go at a moments notice.  Women, on the other hand, seem to need some stimulation to get ready for the full experience.

Now, most men do not mind AT ALL to provide this stimulation.  Whether that stimulation is with the hands or the mouth (or both!), we want our women turned on and ready to rock!

But don’t make the mistake of assuming your man just wants to do it as soon as YOU are ready.

Just because we have a raging hard-on doesn’t mean we don’t want you to play with it a bit

So, next time your man is helping you ‘get in the mood’, don’t forget to pay a little attention to him as well!

2. Cuddle-time – I think this is one of the biggest problems and mistakes that happens AFTER sex.

The two of you have just had an incredible session of lovemaking, and he rolls over and goes to sleep. Or puts on his boxers and goes and gets a beer.

For men, after sex, we return to the state we were in BEFORE the action happened.  It’s like a switch, and we go right back into our ‘pre-aroused’ state.  Or to sleep.

For women, after sex, they go into a state that is ‘semi-aroused’.  In other words, the height of their passion and sensuality is still above average levels.  And they want to cuddle and talk about it…and then maybe do it again!

So if your man just rolls over and starts snoring instead of snuggling, DO NOT think that he is just being an insensitive jerk.  He’s just being a man…albeit a sleepy one.

Instead, look at it like a compliment that you just rocked his world so hard that he needs to regain his strength!

3. Making Jokes with Friends – This is one of the worst mistakes you can make, and it might be one of the easiest to do!

You might be out having some drinks with your man and some friends and the topic of sex comes up. Do NOT ever crack a joke here.

It may be tempting, because you are with friends and you have some booze in you, and you are just being funny.  But that man sitting beside you will probably not find it funny.

It’s the one area where us men are extremely sensitive!

Even if you are just making the joke in jest, and there is no truth in it, men will have a hard time discerning the truth. Or we will obsess and worry what the friends think about us as men!

So, its an easy mistake to make, but an even easier mistake to correct.  Just don’t do it!

3 mistakes that happen more often than they need to.  If you keep these in mind, and don’t repeat them, you WILL be on your way to a happier sex life!

Andrew Michaels