A lot of guys I have talked to have all said the same thing; their fantasies, and their girl’s/wife’s are often very different.

These differences are usually that the women is fantasizing about an emotional, connected experience with their partner, and the man is fantasizing about an almost purely physical scenario.

So whereas you (the women) is thinking about making love in a beautiful meadow with warm sun glowing on your naked skin, your man is probably visualizing you, in a racy outfit, being aggressive and performing sexual acts that aren’t your ‘usual’.

If you can communicate these differences to your partner, and comprise and indulge each other just a little bit, you will have a great relationship, and a great sex life!